I wrote a post two days ago about ‘parallel democracy‘ and received a reply from a George Daranyi of A Parallel Democracy this morning. He runs workshops getting people to start connecting with each other on a personal level to discuss their political differences.
I enjoyed reading his website, and especially the responses from his workshop attendees, when they answered questions like ‘what did you get out of today?’ Here’s a copy from his site.
UPDATE – Hi Tap,
Thanks for getting back to me so quickly. I will let you know how the second round went.
I am on the morning radio talk show here in Tucson which you can live stream at www.wakeuptucson.net. I will be on at 7:15am Pacific Daylight Time. Not sure what that translates to in your neck of the woods.
Have a great day.
- Sensing the ripple effect of one on one conversations; seeing other people interested in the process
- Reconciliation – seeing people as humans, not their politics
- The opportunity to stretch my comfort zone and engage with other people directly
- Reminder about listening, really listening for understanding
- How to bring circles of connection to the world; good language; simple exercise
- Being in a room with those engaged, disengaged and in-between
- Recognition about things I say
- Open ideas with no controls or judgments
- The appearance of citizens interested in a more authentic and responsive democracy
- The possibility that people are willing to cross party lines for the sake of the whole
- An informed, engaged group of people gave me courage to make me realize that each of us can make a difference
- An idea about a different way of doing things
- A glimmer of hope
- The ability to express what issues I have and to practice with facilitators an issue of reconciliation
- The experience reminded me that reconciliation is within my own power to accomplish
- That it occurred at all
- I will open my life to those not like me politically
- I feel hopeful that there are others searching for the same ideals in our democracy
- I am inspired that we can individually and collectively make a difference
- More committed to abandoning the old attitudes, beliefs, and labels
- Less inclined to make classifications and labels
- I became more aware of relating to the humanity of the other
- I will try to be more tolerant of ignorant liberals (ha, ha)
- I will begin the reconciliation process with my brother and a friend
- I will be more curious open and less guarded
- I have an open space to allow others’ anger or disagreements to be looked at as people not as judgments and opinions
- I have found I can be neutral about politics and that I have take responsibility for my actions
- I will start imagining how technology can be liberated from media and money
- I feel more comfortable with political discourse
- I see my brother-in-law as a person
- I will connect with a political antagonist and go beyond that to a place of shared humanity
- I am encouraged to continue this process
- I will approach those with differing views with intent to listen and understand
- I am more open to others opinions
- I’ll feel more comfortable in situations of political discourse
- I have much to think about
- I will write a letter to a disconnected friend
- Awareness of insistence on being right more than reconciling
- I am more aware of my blocks and more willing to be open to differences
- I had a great conversation with my son about his vision, interpretation of our political system
- I will speak differently
TAP – My thoughts were more mechanical as to how a parallel democracy might work. George has gone further down the road and got the process started of people relating to each other politically on a personal face-to-face level. Shame he’s in Tucson. It’s a bit far to attend the session.
Here’s his email to The Tap.
Just read your blog on A Parallel Democracy.
Check out what I have been up to in America, www.aparalleldemocracy.com
Our next event/experience will occur this Saturday, March 16.
I posted a comment on your blog. Would love to hear more from you. We are on to something here. It is time.
PO BOX 5807
Tucson, Az. 85703
He added –
Loved your post. Check out www.aparalleldemocracy.com launched by me in Tucson, Arizona, USA in January 2013. We are on to something here. Would love to hear more. The day/era of representative democracy relying on a multiparty system is over. The Village Square is right here, on my touch pad, key pad and lap top. Everyone now has the capacity, or can be given the capacity to paricipate directly in authentic democracy. The convergence of democracy and technology. All first in a Parallel Democracy; then in the real one. Let’s go.
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TAP – The natural number for a group discussion is far smaller than 2000, but that number would be about right for a new political structure, as 2000 can be got together occasionally in a football ground, for example. The USA would have about 100,000 of them. The constituency would also have smaller sub-groups that could meet more regularly.